How often do you feel emotionally or physically depleted by the end of most days?
How often do you go days without any real time to rest, reflect, or just breathe?
When stress or conflict hits, how often do you react in a way you regret later?
How often do you notice your own childhood wounds showing up in how you parent?
How aligned do you and your spouse feel in your parenting decisions and values?
How often do disagreements about the children create distance between you and your spouse?
How confident are you that you can correct your children calmly, without yelling or shutting down?
How consistent are the rules and follow-through in your home?
How would you describe the feeling in your home on most days?
How often does your family spend time that is truly connected — not just in the same room, but present with each other?
How connected do you feel to God as a real source of strength in your parenting?
How often do you and your family pray, worship, or reflect on faith together?
How clear is your family's shared vision for the kind of home you are building?
If nothing changes over the next five years, how much peace do you feel about the pattern your children will carry into their own homes and marriages?
